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Knowing ABC's Of General Funeral Service Planning
When a loved one passes away it can be an emotionally trying time. If prior arrangements were not made or clear instructions left, a family member is responsible for the interment proceedings. Before planning a funeral service, remember that though everyone is grieving, this is an opportunity to celebrate the life of a dear individual.
Everything begins with selecting a funerary specialist. These facilities employ individuals who are trained in guiding families through each step in the process. They advise many things, including the documents that are legally required, writing an obituary, deciding on burial details, as well as all aspects of both the memorial and interment services.
The second step is deciding who will officiate the proceedings. If the deceased belonged to a specific religious organization, chances are they would want their regular spiritual leader to take this role. If they had no such association, the family can opt to select a minister or have someone else lead.
Next is deciding where the proceedings will be held. The coordinator can help with finding a location, setting up floral deliveries, casket preparation and display, providing audio and video equipment and handling reception details. They can also suggest appropriate music, poems or verses and design a memorial handout or event program.
During the proceedings, people may feel the desire to speak a few words. Eulogies evoke a lot of emotions but are very important when saying final farewells. Though there may be a lot to say when summarizing an individual's entire life and acknowledging their accomplishments and positive points, it is best that this part not exceed five minutes in length.
A lot goes into arranging a funeral service, which should be no longer than an hour. Providing a guest book lets the family know who attended as well as read the messages they leave behind. Have a place to display photos and other memorabilia as a tribute, and provide a memorial handout as a commemorative keepsake.
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