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Facts To Expect When Delivering Funeral Service Messages
If someone you know has just died, you should visit the wake to show respect. If you are far away and cannot visit the service, you could send a letter of sympathy. There are several ways to send funeral messages to the family of the deceased. Send a short note with a token showing empathy.
Even if you are going to the memorial service, it is still appropriate to offer a letter to the bereaved. The content of your note will mainly depend on your relationship with the family and the deceased. It can be brief or long but should show sympathy, compassion and support.
Take note that your letter may be read at the service by the family of the deceased. Considering this, it might be wise to write something that is not too lengthy. Make sure that it is also not too curt and short that your message will appear cold and unfeeling. Show that the deceased was someone special to you.
If you are going to use a store bought card, write a short note in your own thoughts. The context of your letter should depict sorrow yet sound comforting to the family. This may be a difficult task to complete and it will help to remember the deceased when he was living.
You can begin your note by stating a memorable event that you and the deceased shared when he or she was still alive. Do not be worried about saying something offensive or making your letter too long. What is important is to express what you are thinking and how you feel, ending it with a few inspiring sentences.
Be sure to proofread and edit your letter before sending it to the family of the departed. Funeral messages are usually written in cards, as personal letters, via email, or sent with flowers. Make certain that the blooms in your bouquet and the card are appropriate for memorial services.
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