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Discovering ABC's Of General Funeral Service Planning
The loss of a loved one is very difficult on many levels. Unless the deceased has made burial arrangements before their passing, it becomes the family's responsibility. Before getting started with funeral service plans, remember that this is a chance to gather with others to share memories that celebrate the individual's life.
A skilled funerary specialist will be most helpful at this time. They are event coordinators who know how to help the bereaved make the necessary decisions. These may include penning the obituary, covering the legal aspects, choosing burial specifics and all the small, but important details of the interment process.
The second step is deciding who will officiate the proceedings. If the deceased belonged to a specific religious organization, chances are they would want their regular spiritual leader to take this role. If they had no such association, the family can opt to select a minister or have someone else lead.
Once the officiant is chosen, the venue is next. The coordinator can assist in finding a location in which to hold the proceedings. They are also well versed in arranging casket and floral displays, setting up video and audio, creating memorial handouts and suggesting appropriate verses, passages, poems and music for the occasion.
During the proceedings, people may feel the desire to speak a few words. Eulogies evoke a lot of emotions but are very important when saying final farewells. Though there may be a lot to say when summarizing an individual's entire life and acknowledging their accomplishments and positive points, it is best that this part not exceed five minutes in length.
A lot goes into arranging a funeral service, which should be no longer than an hour. Providing a guest book lets the family know who attended as well as read the messages they leave behind. Have a place to display photos and other memorabilia as a tribute, and provide a memorial handout as a commemorative keepsake.
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