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Observing The Basics Of A Funeral Service
When a loved one passes away it can be an emotionally trying time. If prior arrangements were not made or clear instructions left, a family member is responsible for the interment proceedings. Before planning a funeral service, remember that though everyone is grieving, this is an opportunity to celebrate the life of a dear individual.
A skilled funerary specialist will be most helpful at this time. They are event coordinators who know how to help the bereaved make the necessary decisions. These may include penning the obituary, covering the legal aspects, choosing burial specifics and all the small, but important details of the interment process.
The second step is deciding who will officiate the proceedings. If the deceased belonged to a specific religious organization, chances are they would want their regular spiritual leader to take this role. If they had no such association, the family can opt to select a minister or have someone else lead.
Once the officiant is chosen, the venue is next. The coordinator can assist in finding a location in which to hold the proceedings. They are also well versed in arranging casket and floral displays, setting up video and audio, creating memorial handouts and suggesting appropriate verses, passages, poems and music for the occasion.
Others may request the opportunity to speak a few words. Giving the eulogy can be one of the more emotional tasks. This heartfelt summary of a life should list their accomplishments and special attributes but should remain only 5-10 minutes long.
There are many details in planning a funeral service. The family may wish to provide a guest book for mourners to sign and leave a message if desired, a special table for the display of photographs and memorabilia, as well as a handout which not only guides the proceedings but acts as a memento of the occasion. Because this is a difficult time for all involved, the event is usually designed to last no more than an hour.
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