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Learning The Basics Of A Funeral Service
Losing someone close take an emotional toll. It falls on family to make arrangements for a funeral service unless the deceased prepared them ahead of time. When performing this task, it helps if one is able to look past the grief and view it as a celebration of life for the individual who has passed on.
The first step is choosing through which funerary establishment the arrangements will be made. They usually assign an event coordinator to walk the family through the process. Their purpose is to advise on things such as making sure all the legal documents are completed, creating the obituary, picking a casket or urn, and all the little details that go into the memorial and interment services.
The second step is deciding who will officiate the proceedings. If the deceased belonged to a specific religious organization, chances are they would want their regular spiritual leader to take this role. If they had no such association, the family can opt to select a minister or have someone else lead.
Next is deciding where the proceedings will be held. The coordinator can help with finding a location, setting up floral deliveries, casket preparation and display, providing audio and video equipment and handling reception details. They can also suggest appropriate music, poems or verses and design a memorial handout or event program.
Some of the bereaved may wish to contribute to the final tribute by sharing special memories. The eulogy is perhaps the most difficult aspect of the preparation process since it will generally evoke a lot of emotion. This is a heartfelt speech, lasting approximately five minutes, in which the deceased's life is summarized and their special attributes honored.
A funeral service has a lot of details to look after. Some things that should not be overlooked are a book for guests to sign and leave messages in, a table on which memorabilia and photos can be displayed, and a commemorative handout or program that provides everyone with a memento of the deceased. With respect for the grieving process, the ceremonies should only be between 30 minutes and an hour long.
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